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š± Why Your Texts Arenāt Getting the Replies You Want
Texting should build attractionānot confusion. Hereās how.

Hey,
Letās be real: Texting can make or break your connection with a woman.
One wrong moveālike sending dry āwyd?ā texts or paragraphs of overthinkingāand youāll feel her interest fade faster than you can hit send.
But hereās the thing: Texting isnāt about what you say. Itās about how you make her feel.
If youāre stuck on āHeyā and getting ghosted, hereās how to fix itāfast.
š« Common Texting Mistakes That Kill Attraction:
Being Predictable
If every conversation is:
You: Hey
Her: Hey
You: Whatās up?
Her: Nm u?
ā¦congrats, youāve entered Texting Purgatory.
Double-Texting Desperation
"Hello?"
"???"
"Did you get my last text?"
Chasing kills mystery. Relax. Give her space to respond.
Turning Texting Into a Job Interview
āSo, what do you do?ā
āWhere are you from?ā
āWhat are your hobbies?ā
Sheās not applying for a jobāflirt, play, and feel the conversation.
ā How to Text Women and Build Attraction:
Lead With Energy, Not Interrogation
Ask questions that spark emotion, not boredom.
Instead of: āWhat are you up to?ā
Try: āBe honest⦠on a scale from Netflix to skydiving, how exciting is your day?ā
Use Callbacks to Build Connection
If she told you she loves dogs, text:
āJust saw a golden retriever puppy and thought of you. 10/10 would let you steal it.ā
Itās playful, personal, and shows you listen.
Match Her Energy
If sheās sending short replies, donāt write novels. Mirror her vibe and let the energy build naturally.End on a High Note
Donāt drag the convo until it dies. Leave her wanting more.
Try:
āAlright, Iāve gotta run, but youāre officially the most fun part of my day. Letās continue this over a drink. šā
š¬ When to Stop Texting:
If sheās giving one-word replies with no effort.
If sheās always ātoo busyā but on social media 24/7.
If youāre always initiating.
Youāre texting to connectānot convince. Move on if sheās not meeting you halfway.
š” The Texting Formula That Works:
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Playful opener (no boring āheyā)
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Flirt with confidence (donāt overthink)
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Show you listen (callbacks)
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Set up the date (because texting isnāt the relationshipāmeeting is)
Texting is just the appetizerāthe real connection happens in person. So stop overthinking, text with confidence, and move things forward.
And if sheās not giving you the energy you deserve? Block, delete, and keep it moving. Youāre the prizeāact like it.