Stop Overthinking Your Texts and Win Her Heart 💌

Hey there,

Texting in a relationship can feel like a minefield sometimes—am I texting too much? Not enough? How do I keep her interested?

Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered. Here are a few tips to help you navigate the texting game and make sure each message brings you closer together, not further apart:

1. Keep It Fun and Engaging

Don’t text her about the boring stuff. Each text should aim to make her smile or feel good. Focus on positive, light-hearted messages, and keep it brief—2 to 3 sentences are enough to get your point across without overwhelming her.

2. Stay Consistent, But Not Clingy

Don’t use her just to keep you entertained. Text her because you genuinely want to connect. And remember, if she hasn’t responded to your last text, don’t double or triple-text her—it can come off as needy.

3. Meaningful Conversations Matter

When the conversation gets deep, don’t bail out. Girls appreciate long, meaningful conversations. If you think about her during the day, send a cute text saying so. Even something simple like, "I saw something today that reminded me of you" can go a long way.

4. Mix It Up

Don’t be predictable. Change up the time you text her and the content of your messages. Variety keeps things exciting and fresh. And remember, it's not always about quantity but the quality of the conversation.

5. Show Confidence, Not Desperation

Don’t always be available or too complimentary—make sure you’re showing high standards. Texting should be a balanced exchange, where both of you invest equally in the conversation.